Sunday, June 20, 2010

I fell in love with Charms Bracelet




Before we appreciate the value of Charms and find out how they mystify people. Lets first understand more about personal Charm. Trust me they are related.
"Charm” is defined as the virtue of attraction, an appeal that interests, pleases or simulates another person and draw people to them. It is the magical secret of captivating hearts of people around you and casting irresistable magical spells on them. A charming personality is capable to out shine the rest of the people around themselves. Charming people always carry a positive aura around them.
Charm Quotes brings out the aura of the writer. These quotes highlight the beauty of the writer’s heart and help spread positive vibes around.
The Rembrandt Charms represent the essence of the Charm aura, spread your charm by presenting that special one in your life with the special gift of Rembrandt charm bracelet 
Rembrandt Charms are hand crafted and hand polished with great care!  
Here are the reasons why these charms make the perfect gift for all occasions
  • Rembrandt Charms are of the highest quality charms available, made to last
  • World-renowned for offering thousands of different charms styles, all created with superb craftsmanship
  • Uses up to a  total of 40 skilled artisans to create each and every charm in their collection
  • Each of their charms are offered in sterling silver, gold plate, 10k yellow gold, 14k yellow gold, and 14k white gold.


via http://www.rembrandtcharms.org/

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

The Tolerant Thai Culture





The Thai culture is an interesting culture. This is the place where people are allowed to do pretty much whatever they want as long as they do not hurt others in doing so. The Thai Culture is such a very tolerant culture especially on the topic of sexual orientation. It is widely accepted to have 3 types of sex gender, male, female, lady boy. Even teasing is done in such child-like manner that no one gets offended.


In Thai language the word "puchai" is a man, "puying" is a woman, "puli "(katuey in slang) or lady boy is a he/she; there is absolutely no negative connotation associated with it. People break into laughter when using them interchangeably. For example, people laugh when they see a puying who you call puchai, and a puchai who acts like a puying and a puli with a hairy body from a Western country.

My adventurous life sadly without love.. by Lindsy




I love adventure. I will travel every opportunity I have. I move from places to places. Unfortunately my relationships suffer because of my lifestyle. The longest relationship I have lasted for up to 3 months only. I have like 10 different boyfriends by now.

She left me... John


"Cassey like a hurricane just blows my heart away
every time she comes around again,
leading me just far enough to hope that she might stay,
then she’s gone just like the wind."
(Song: Hurricane Casey)


She left me 2 months ago. We have been together for 2 years. She left me for another man. I gave up my business and moved to a new place with her, to spend time with her to love her. Yet she left me.

I cannot understand. All I wanted is to be with her, to love her.

On hindsight, she seem to value certainty more than love. She didnt want me to sell my business. Little did she know that I cant bear to remain in my home town anymore when my father passed away. It brings back sad memories.

It didnt help when I am not making enough money now that I have to work for people.

I feel useless, I lost my balance. I dont know what to do next.

Looking back, the reason she marries me is for the certainty I provided her, with my business and my ability to make good money and provided for her lifestyle. When I decide to sell my business, everything changed. She is not willing to go through uncertainty in life with me. I love her, but it would pain me even more to have to stay in my home time. All in all, I decided that I have made the right decision to move on. I never regretted that. Thats what I need to feel alive inside me.

I hope in 6 months time I have good news to share with you. For now, I have to move on and stop thinking about her.

The proposal that was not meant to be - James and Angel



This is a proposal that was not meant to be.

James stood up in a seminar with more than 1000 people. Such courageous act of love. He proposed to the girl he loves for 4 years. He promised a house, a yatch and he whipped out the diamond ring. I can see that he has worked so hard for the last 4 years for this very day to present the gifts to her.

The lady, Angel, was surprising cool about it. She turned around and asked the speaker at the seminar whether he is the right person for her. This is a life improvement seminar. Wow such an important life decision to pass on to a stranger. No matter how good the coach is, I dont think it is a responsible act to let someone else who hardly know the two of you to decide your fate.

The conversation between the coach and Angel went on for an hour. For the whole time, James is kneeling on the floor without moving an inch, earnestly waiting for a response from Angel.

Angel said that she has unresolved issues. Surprisingly, the coach read her well and told her that she is playing him. Throughout the hour, she has not shown compassion for him, she left him kneeling on the floor, she did not show any feeling for him.
Angel insisted to talk about her unresolved issues. The coach would not let her. He turned around and asked James to stand up. Jame continued to stay on the floor, his eyes were pleading her. Finally she said yes to him. The crowd applauded, she accepted the ring.

The coach turned around and tell James not to accept the marriage for now. He advised him to hold it for another 3 to 6 months. He didnt think that Angel feels for James at all. He told Angel that she needs to grow up to stop being selfish. He advised James to wait for the moment when he can feel her genuine love through her eyes, not by what she says.

Wow, this is so unexpected. Yet it is so typical of a marriage where one's love is not fully reciprocated. What good does it do to either party. A marriage set out to fail, and bring misery to all.

I wish the couple well. I hope they can learn from this episode. In my heart, I pray that Angel would mature up and learn to love him as much as he loves her. I can feel his pure heart is full of love for her. What was admirable of him is that he knew that he was giving her unconditional love while she was giving her love only if she gets what she wanted- the house, the lifestyle she demanded. Yet he was willing to accept the marriage when she said yes to him.

Such a selfless man, my heart goes to him.

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